This text was created as part of the course Gender, Sexuality, Identities – From Oppression to Equality in the academic year 2024/2025.
Authors: Marta Ozimec, Jana Telebar, Gina Ursula Juričev Barbin

If you have experienced any form of intimate partner or sexual violence, know that you are not alone. At SOS Rijeka – Centre for Nonviolence and Human Rights, you have access to comprehensive and confidential support. No matter your situation, it is important to know that you have the right to protection. At our Counselling Centre for Victims of Domestic, Intimate Partner, and Sexual Violence, you can receive free primary legal assistance related to Croatian law and psychological support, available in both Croatian and English.

How do I know if I am experiencing intimate partner and/or sexual violence?

These are some forms of violence you might be experiencing:

  • Physical violence includes intentional infliction of injuries, such as hitting, slapping, choking, pushing, or using objects to cause pain.
  • Sexual violence involves coercion into sexual acts, sexual harassment, rape, forced prostitution, and other forms of sexual coercion that occur without your consent.
  • Economic violence includes restricting financial autonomy by controlling income, preventing access to property, prohibiting employment, failing to pay alimony, creating debt without consent, and financial manipulation aimed at creating dependence.
  • Psychological violence includes manipulation, blackmail, threats of deportation, humiliation, intimidation, isolation, and actions that undermine self-confidence, restrict freedom, and create feelings of worthlessness.

How can I recognize violence?

Sometimes, you may be in an abusive relationship without realizing it. Perpetrators often appear kind and caring to keep you in the relationship, but such behavior does not justify violence.

The following examples may indicate that you are in an abusive relationship:

  • Your partner humiliates or yells at you.
  • They criticize and belittle you.
  • They blame you for their outbursts.
  • They control your activities and monitor your every move.
  • They display extreme jealousy and accuse you.
  • They prevent you from socializing with friends or family.
  • They control your finances or forbid you from having your own bank account.
  • They threaten to harm you or your loved ones.
  • They physically hurt you.
  • They force you into sexual acts.
  • They destroy your belongings, such as your phone or documents.
  • They threaten to sell your property or create debts without your knowledge.

Who can be a perpetrator?

Perpetrators can be extended family members, partners, employers, or other people in your environment. SOS Rijeka primarily focuses on supporting women experiencing violence in intimate or partner relationships. Unfortunately, perpetrators are often people we know, such as partners, husbands, or family members.

What should I do if I am in an abusive relationship?

If you feel that you are in an abusive relationship, it is important to remember that you are not responsible for your partner’s violent behavior. Seek support and confide in a trusted person – a friend, colleague, or family member. Assess the level of danger. If you are at risk of physical harm, find a safe place. Inform someone you trust or contact the police, a women’s shelter, or SOS Rijeka. Prepare essential items for leaving, such as personal documents and necessities, and plan a safe place to go.

How to seek help?

📞 Call us: 051 / 211 – 888

💬 Write to us at pomoc@sos-rijeka.org

Legal assistance is also available at the following organizations:

Frequently Asked Questions

What if my partner has taken my documents?

Contact an organization that assists victims of violence. Professionals will help you recover your documents and exercise your rights.

Will I be deported if I report violence?

No. Reporting violence is your right and is not grounds for deportation.

What if I lose my job?

SOS Rijeka can provide legal advice and support in finding new employment opportunities.

What if I or my loved ones are in danger?

SOS Rijeka provides psychological and primary legal support, including assistance in contacting relevant institutions.

Will anyone find out?

All information you share with us is strictly confidential.

Can I report violence if I do not have a regulated residence in Croatia?

Yes, you can. All institutions are required to process reports of violence without discrimination.

Are services available in my language?

Yes, some organizations offer services in multiple languages, including translation and interpretation. We have listed some of the organizations above where you can find support in your language. We recommend that you always request assistance in your language; if a translator is available, one can be provided. If translation is not available, we advise you to bring someone who speaks English to facilitate communication and receive the necessary support.

You are not alone. Support is available – reach out to us with confidence.